Any useful tips how I can deal with my recent school refuser? She goes to a lovely local school with a SEN unit and has always been happy there. I don't know what has happened, can't get anything out of her, but the last couple of months have been a nightmare, from screaming and crying so hard that she almost makes herself sick, to not sleeping and general anxiety, worse than before. I spoke to the school and they can't think of anything that might have caused it. So I'm lost. She is 9 and home schooling is NOT an option!